Am I in love?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about…7 and a half months. We both cant stand to be away from each other, but we are still in high school. we are not the stereotypical teenage relationship where everything is about sex. We have not have sex yet, but we have talked about it and truthfully, neither of us are ready for that level yet. We like each other alot, and care for each other as if we were a married couple or close family, which we are neither. I was just wondering, Am I in love?
I appreciate the answer given by ebelshe, but shes not the only one choosing not to have sex. The last few years i have literally screwed around with girls in high school, and im just looking for a good long lasting relationship that will hopefully last until i go to college. I think i have found this girl but i am not sure, and i honestly could do with my hand for the next 6 months or until we are BOTH ready to have sex. And if I wasnt gonna die, but just had serious injuries that took a long time ti heal then yeah I would walk infront of the train, i would definitely do it.
7 Responses to “Am I in love?”


If you have to ask the answer is likely – no. Secondly, you almost immediately mentioned sex.
Love is not sex – that is lust.
Here is a test for you:
If you love her you would be willing to step in front of a train if that would mean saving her. Only you in your heart know if this is so.
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yes ur in love stupid. im only a freshman and im in love. shut up kempie
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nobody can answer that question but yourself…..but in my opinion since ive been there before i believe that you both have a very strong attachment and a very strong connection with each other….which is different from love.
kempie…..what the hell is up with the train analogy?? are you like twelve
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Some of ur symptoms suggest that you have been bitten by the Love Bug but there is still a chance. You need to undergo some more tests to confirm the disease & take adequate precautions & medication.
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If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.
Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL your 25 or older.
If your not having sex it because she choose this not you.
Your in High School you should be dating a lot of people not just her.
It may seem that she only wants to be with you the truth is someone with some game is going to come along and steal her from you.
So to answer you questions you are PW (Pussy Whooped) and not in Love. You need to dump her and move onto someone who you can be more physical and enjoy your life. At this point your just friend who call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
You’re in for a major crash remember who told you first.
Just think of this what happend if she sleeps with somone by accident how cruched your going to be. Hit it and move on your tooooo young.
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Yea you are in love. Just sit back and keep doing what you are you doing. Thingss will happen on there own.
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just b/c you asked doesnt mean you do or dont. it means your confused. most ppl are. all i can say is that every one thinks they dont have a typical relationship weather they do or dont. let time tell you weather you do or not. the test of time works 99 percent of the times. if you find your “love” winds down for even one of you it probly just infatution.
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