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My fiancee is paying child support for his son (whom he’s not allowed to see because he’s with me), which is taken out of his paycheck weekly. But his son’s custodial parent decided to go to the support kids website and start a case against him there. She says he’s not trying to support his son and that he’s trying to hurt him. He was recently laid off from work for a month and he just found another job, but she’s upset because she didn’t get any money that month and they haven’t started taking it out of his pay at the new job yet. He tries to call his son, and no one will answer the phone. He sends him emails, but he never gets a response. He’s worried that if they take more money out of his pay, then he won’t be able to support his daughter, too. And he wants to know if there is anything he can do to to see his son. He has a court order for support and visitation. But, she told him that as long as he’s with me, he can’t see his son. Is there any advice for this situation??
In addition, the custodial parent is his son’s grandmother. His son’s mom gave up custody because she was into drugs. She now has 2 more children. The only one she has is the one she’s pregnant with. But yet, this woman called me a w***e and a s**t. She has met me once and knows nothing about me. We were also told to keep all the emails that she sends to us because they can be used in court.
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5 Responses to “Can u b made to pay more child support if you have a court order?”
Absolutely. If you don’t pay, you go to jail, much like I did.
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Short answer is yes. With a court order he can be made to pay any amount up to 20% (I think that is the limit) of his GROSS pay.
If he isn’t allowed to see his child, get a lawyer and argue the case. Unless he is a violent person, there is no reason that he can not see his child. Your fiancee could argue that the custodial parent denied visitation. This is a huge deal with support.
Don’t do it alone, and don’t tell the other parent that you are getting a lawyer, it will only give her time to do something on her own.
Good luck. This situation is terrible and happens all to often.
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Oh my GOD! that is exactly what my fiancee and I are going thru. Wow! ……first of all she has to let your fiancee see his son, what she’s doing it’s illegal! specially if his been paying child support. If your fiancee didn’t have a job or in the future doesn’t have a job, he doesn’t get in trouble for not giving child support.( as long as his not working). However if his working right now, I suggest that he pays for support so that she doesnt use that against him.
You and your fiancee have to take this women to court. She cannot hide his son because his with you. What the court will do is check your background history and if you record is clear then you are llegally able to see his son and there’s nothing she can do,(thats what they did with me).. make sure he keeps copies of all the payments that he makes for child support. If she says that he hurts his son they will check his son to make sure that everything is ok. If she has been in drugs thats something you can use against her. Save anything that she sends to you, any voice mails, text etc.. I dont understand why his son grandmother has custody of his son, Your fiancee should definetly file for full custody for him. You should get a lawyer for this case.
My fiancee and I live in New York, so what he has to pay for child support is 17% percent off his paycheck. It all depends where you live. Now if you guys have a daughter, you have to consult this with a lawyer and get more information. I have the same problem, his ex wouldn’t let him see his daughter because of me. But right now we have a lawyer thats taking care of this. Everything is going pretty good for us. It’s crazy how women do this to their kids, they dont realize that the kids are suffering. !!
I wish you LUCK.
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Once the courts have made their decision, that is what you have to abide by. SHE cannot make the rules! Since he was given visitation, not letting him see his child, no matter if he’s paying child support or not, no matter if he’s with YOU, she is going against the court order and she is in “contempt of court”! What he needs to do is to contact his lawyer, no matter how long ago it was, and tell him! She can get into BIG TROUBLE if she does not allow him to his son. TRUST ME! There IS something that you can do! But you MUST contact the lawyer that was used and inform him/her of this. They will then contact HER, and the HER lawyer and try to resolve the issue without going back to court. It should not cost YA’LL anything… if it DOES to go back to court, SHE will have to pay for it because SHE is the one in contempt. Good luck!
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yes, if the court oder you to pay and you don’t you will go to jail untill you do pay.
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