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Loading ...I am missing my best friend that I haven’t spoke with since Christmas 2004. How do I reach out to her?
We have known eachother since high school. We were best friends for 11 years. In September 2002 I got laid off of work and I moved in with her and her family for 1 year. By the end of the year we were all miserable. I paid $250/month rent on time every month but there was interpersonal conflict between her and her husband and her and her kids and me and her kids. I was glad to get out of there and she was glad to see me go. I did things that I feel guilty about and hold grudge for the way she treated me. For a while everything was cool and our friendship was saved. My personal problems got worse and I dropped of face of the earth. My personal problems are resolved now and am ready to reach out but I am scared. I know the guilt and grudge are stupid but it is how I feel. I don’t wanna bring it up with her because she doesn’t know I feel this way.
Sorry I didn’t mean to write a life story…lol
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2 Responses to “I am missing my best friend that I haven’t spoke with since Christmas 2004. How do I reach out to her?”
Suck it up and get over to see her. Chances are, she’s probably missing you as well. Don’t bring up the past. Start a new friendship from this day forward. Good luck.
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Write her a letter, and let her know that you are thankful for all her help; and if you caused any problems while living with her that you are truly sorry. Tell her that it was never your intent. Let her know the troubles that you have been going through and how you did not want to involve her since you relied so much on her in the past.
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