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My husband and I have been together for three years and we usually celebrate with dinner and small gifts for eachother and we also buy our daughter a small valentine’s stuffed animal but last May my husband cheated on me and just as I was beginning to deal with it and move on he betrayed my trust again by asking another girl for her number and telling her he was not married. My husband is bipolar and has a lot of unresolved issues, that is part of the reason why he looks for the “easy way out” when things get rough between us. Since meeting that other girl (who he did not have any sexual contact with) he has not talked to her or anything like that and I am again beginning to deal with it. The problem is I now have a lot of doubts about myself and am finding it hard to be joyful on a day made for lovers when mine has hurt me so much. I want to be happy and make our normal plans this year but I get depressed just thinking about how, in my mind, it will never be the same.
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I think that you should try to talk to him and tell him how you feel
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Gosh this is really sad. You actually try to forget this? & sometimes act like if nothing happened? gosh lady you sure are a strong woman! I know when my boyfriend cheated on me I beat the s**t out of him. I cant take any betrayal!I know you are married & want to save you marriage but you are really hurting yourself being with him. I’m not saying not to be with him but why put up with his sh*t twice!! Men these days dont appreciate the woman they’re with. I know regarding to your daughter u want evrything be okay n forgotten its really hard I KNOW!!My advice to you is do whatever feels right! But yeah talk to him and let him feel a little bit of your pain.-by that i mean tell him he’s a good for nothing sorry loser. no women should deal with this type betrayal cuz it really hurts!!!To bad 4 him he lost ur trust!!!
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I know how you feel , my guy has also cheated . I had a problem too . I really suggest doing what you normally would do because if you dont you will dwell on it all day and make yourself along with everyone around you miserable . I do however suggest that before Valentines you talk to him in regards to how you feel about him choosing the easy way out . Try to make him understand maybe even try to go to counseling . Whichever you decide I wish you the best of luck and hope you have a wonderful Valentines Day .
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