Dating Secrets Revealed

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After I’m divorced, am I betraying my husband if I ask his friends/family for a letter supporting me in an annulment? I have a list of about 6 of them that might do it. None of my friends saw that side of our relationship. They knew something odd was up, but never had any proof. His friends would need to state that he was doing and dealing weed while we were still dating and when we got married 11 years ago. This is a very important piece of defence for me and I am weirdly concerned for his feelings on this. Also, has anyone out there gotten an annulment?

We have known eachother since high school. We were best friends for 11 years. In September 2002 I got laid off of work and I moved in with her and her family for 1 year. By the end of the year we were all miserable. I paid $250/month rent on time every month but there was interpersonal conflict between her and her husband and her and her kids and me and her kids. I was glad to get out of there and she was glad to see me go. I did things that I feel guilty about and hold grudge for the way she treated me. For a while everything was cool and our friendship was saved. My personal problems got worse and I dropped of face of the earth. My personal problems are resolved now and am ready to reach out but I am scared. I know the guilt and grudge are stupid but it is how I feel. I don’t wanna bring it up with her because she doesn’t know I feel this way.

Sorry I didn’t mean to write a life story…lol

Me and my fiance have been together 4 6 years now and wants to get married. He has his best friend 4 11 years now and when the friend comes to visit (which is a lot) he sleeps over and they play computer games the whole night while I lay alone in bed waiting untill I fall asleep. Is it wrong of me to ask his friend don’t sleep over any more after we get married and visit less often?