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I was a pack-and-1/2 a day smoker for a decade. I quit in Aug. ’05. I’m 31yo, I’ve been doing cardio exercise for months now. I noticed circulation probs that have become less severe since I quit smoking, but my arms still go to sleep easily while in bed. I also feel short of breath sometimes, when laying down & on the treadmill. The worst symptom is an intense “pain” or empty feeling (somewhat hard to describe) emanating from my throat in the early mornings after I urinate, it keeps me from going back to sleep. I think “angina” describes this pain, but it’s in the throat–not the chest. I used to think this was a withdrawl symptom from nicotine. I used to get it back when I was a smoker; it would go away with my 1st morning cigarette. But as I weened myself off nicotine, first with nicorette gum, then cold turkey since Dec ’05, the pains have gotten worse and sometimes persist into early afternoon, not every day but at least several days/week. I also rarely get satisfying sleep.

there was a girl that i was talking to in august. I messed things up by pushing for a relationship b/c i didn’t want to fall for her and she not do the same for me. so i pused her away. Now we are freinds again and she spends more time with me then her current bf. 3 weeks i told her that i was falling for her. we both liked each other in aug and the attraction i would say is still there. I’ve said in front of her and freinds that i’m done with going out and getting wasted i want to settle down. well the last 2 sundays she’s come over and the first one she cleaned in the morning and cooked me dinner last night i cooked and we watched a movie and she stayed the night. the previous night she asked about moving in with me. What should i do. I really do think i love this girl but she is very very confussed at what she wants in life. could she be scared that i want a serious relationship and she can’t handle one, should i move on? I can’t say this stuff again b/c i enjoy spending time w/her.