Dating Secrets Revealed

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We dated last fall and I was attracted to her and developing deep feelings. She hated her ex-fiance but was hurt by him when he broke off the engagement. Because of that she kept everyone (including me) at arms length and acted cold and heartless. I tried to keep my cool and paitence but about six months ago she took me out to dinner for my birthday and I told her how I finally felt and told her that I feel sorry for her about what her ex did. Well dinner went to hell, she got pissed and I told her to leave me alone and get counseling (pretty mean but alcohol was involved). I sent her a very sincere apology the next day and refused to communicate with her again.

Last week she emailed me out of the blue apologizing for being “f’d up and resentful of her situation” and that she misses me and that she was so hurt. I care about her and am willing to see if she has changed. She asked me out tonight. What do I do or say to break the ice again and see if there is channge?
It was six months between the last time I talked to her and last week when she emailed me…
Oh yeah…she’s a feminist too.

so my bf had just moved in to a new appartment and decides to call up his ex girlfriend to ask her to come see it after that about a week later i was hanging out with him on his birthday two girls decide to call and tell him that they have a presant for him and then tells them to come over should i be suspicious about all this? *i mean i have already talked to him about it*

so my bf had just moved in to a new appartment and decides to call up his ex girlfriend to ask her to come see it after that about a week later i was hanging out with him on his birthday two girls decide to call and tell him that they have a presant for him and then tells them to come over should i be suspicious about all this? *i mean i have already talked to him about it*

Today i finished my last final for school. Its is also my dads birthday. My boyfriend asked me to stay an extra night because hes going on vacation next week for two weeks and will be out of town so i agreed. We have been dated about a year and i trust him pretty well.

But tonight i went over there and we watched a movie then we “slept together” i still thought i would spend the night with him and it would be fun. But then he told me he had to get up for work, and that i should prolly stay at my own dorm tonight.

…Did he just want to get laid? I’m usually quite open to this… but did i stay an extra night to be a booty call?

What do you think he was thinking?

We were high school sweethearts. After graduation I became pregnant and we’ve been apart since after our son’s 1st birthday. I loved him but his life was off track & I told him he needed to get it together and when he did come back to his son & me. He called a few times but then drifted off. Life goes on and I dated, fell in love, got married & divorced. I have been single for a year & a half and my life is the best that it has been in a long time. (My son knows my ex-husband was his ‘step’ dad.) Recently while at Classmates.com I realized my son’s father had registered himself. Am I awful to want to know what he’s doing? I wonder if he remembers his son or thinks about him? Or me? Is it ok to feel this? Do I let this lay or send him a message? My friends are mixed. One says do it for my son & to do it for me. The other says don’t do it I’m asking for trouble. What do you think?