Dating Secrets Revealed

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I have been dating my guy for a while now. I have been trying to do all that i can to make him happy. We are about 60 miles away from eachother but both of us have been trying to make the trip to see the other. my problem is that i don’t have a license and cannot drive over to see him. i have made sure that i am available everyday that he comes by. things had been going great until recently. he stated that he was tired of driving the distance and he had never made any type of long-term committment before. i always have taken all my relationships seriously. with him i have learned so many things in life, one of the most important is that i learned to trust the opposite sex again. he states that he still cares about me, but isn’t sure if we should go on with our relationship. i am having a hard time letting him go…i fell in love with him. he has been the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. What should i do?

If you meet someone over the internet and yall both say you want to be with eachother and you both say you love eachother ..
Do you think that it would sound like i’am crazy or something if i ask him if he is dating other people..
Cause i dont want him to think i’am weird..
Course yall all probly think i’am crazy anyhow LOL

Like if u wanted to hook up with a girl that lived next door to u all ur life then she moves away and when u get older she comes back in town. U don’t know if she likes u or not but u like her and yall aren’t strangers to eachother. like u see eachother everyday and conversate. How would u come across askin her out with out just poppin out of the blue?

We have known eachother since high school. We were best friends for 11 years. In September 2002 I got laid off of work and I moved in with her and her family for 1 year. By the end of the year we were all miserable. I paid $250/month rent on time every month but there was interpersonal conflict between her and her husband and her and her kids and me and her kids. I was glad to get out of there and she was glad to see me go. I did things that I feel guilty about and hold grudge for the way she treated me. For a while everything was cool and our friendship was saved. My personal problems got worse and I dropped of face of the earth. My personal problems are resolved now and am ready to reach out but I am scared. I know the guilt and grudge are stupid but it is how I feel. I don’t wanna bring it up with her because she doesn’t know I feel this way.

Sorry I didn’t mean to write a life story…lol

About 3 months ago I asked a girl out, we both had a great time. That night she always took my arm or hand and we also stayed with eachother for the rest of the evening. I did not cross the line with her, as I only held her in my arms until morning. The next day she told me she had such a great time, and we have gone out on what I would consider dates several more times. She continues to go out with me, she has no other male friends or boyfriends, yet she seems to keep her distance when we enter an environment where we could be intimate? Should I move on? Does she just consider me her friend? I have no idea what to do, I am just plain confused and tired of trying to figure this out.
When I say she keeps her distance, I mean she doesn’t even get near me on the couch if we’re watching a movie, and there is no goodnight kiss, maybe a hug, but that’s it. Yet she still agrees to go to dinner and sporting events and movies etc… and she still calls or texts me.