Dating Secrets Revealed

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We’ve known each other for a long time, and we’re friends. I’ve asked her out twice. the first time, she said yes and then canceled at the last minute. the second time, she said she was busy. I have a bad rep, as a player, but I really like this girl, and in spite of what everyone thinks, I really want to change and settle down.

before yall start trippin I am not a racist. In fact I like white men. I would like to find a good one to day, only because I am physically attracted to them. I have heard several different assumptions about this issue. I know that you can’t speak for everyone but I would just like to here from some of the white men. Please be respectful.

We dated last fall and I was attracted to her and developing deep feelings. She hated her ex-fiance but was hurt by him when he broke off the engagement. Because of that she kept everyone (including me) at arms length and acted cold and heartless. I tried to keep my cool and paitence but about six months ago she took me out to dinner for my birthday and I told her how I finally felt and told her that I feel sorry for her about what her ex did. Well dinner went to hell, she got pissed and I told her to leave me alone and get counseling (pretty mean but alcohol was involved). I sent her a very sincere apology the next day and refused to communicate with her again.

Last week she emailed me out of the blue apologizing for being “f’d up and resentful of her situation” and that she misses me and that she was so hurt. I care about her and am willing to see if she has changed. She asked me out tonight. What do I do or say to break the ice again and see if there is channge?
It was six months between the last time I talked to her and last week when she emailed me…
Oh yeah…she’s a feminist too.

Well…….if you would look at my previous questions you would see that i was having some troubles with my now ex-boyfriend for reasons already discussed….i broke up with him because of some of the reasonable arguments many of you made for me…thanx…..im a lot more happier now than i expected….ne ways my old boyfriend isint happy hes telling everyone im a “lousy lay” and saying other awful stuff about me all of witch are not true and i know that but it still hurts my feelings and its hurting my social life what i want to know is if any you have any advice for me to get him to leave me alone? How can i disprove the rumors hes starting?

He is way above normal maturity levels for someone his age.