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we had a great time up to about 5 months ago,then she moved in and changed. ive tried to patient, ive given her alot of “space”. but she hates being touched, she hates sleeping together,the only thing physically is she has put on like 10 lbs. i know thats like a horrific thing for girls but its barely noticible. Now since it bothers me and im trying to figure it out it is causing fights. i dont wan to loose her but i dont know what to do. I’ve asked everything, is it me? have i changed? whats bothering you? but all i get is : “nothings wrong”. ive suggested that mabe were not attracted to each other. but she denies it with a passion and says i doubt her love… is she cheating, or what, why cant you girls just give straight answers///

my fiancee and i are trying to get pregnant because i am the only one out of both of our families that do not have children. my mom is not getting any younger and i would like to give her a grandchild before she passes. nowadays the way this world is comming to there is no telling what can happen to any of us or her. i am only 22 and my fiancee is 20 and my job laid me off and he dont have a job. both parents have said if i were to get pregnant they would help.

IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP I WAS CHEATED ON. MY FIANCEE CHEATED WITH MY BEST FRIEND. I FOUNG OUT WHEN I GOT A $600 CELL PHONE BILL. I AM NOW IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND I AM AFRAID OF THE SAME THING AGAIN. THIS GUY HAS ALOT OF FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS. I KNOW I AM NOT THE HOTTEST THING. I DONT KNOW. I HAVE COMPLETELY FALLING FOR THIS GUY I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HELP HIM REACH HIS HIGHEST POTENTIAL. WHEN I ASK WHO HE IS TALKING TO OR TEXTING OF IMING HE TELLS ME BUT THERE IS STILL THIS SMALL FEAR OF WHAT HAPPENED IN MY PAST PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE TO WHAT I SHOULD DO.
HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME. HIS ACTIONS SAY THE SAME THING. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME

Ever since I broke up with my ex-fiancee three years ago, I have been unbelievably uncomfortable around women. Some would call this social anxiety, but I can carry on a conversation fine and can be with people.

My problem stems from being around physically attractive women. I am definitely attracted to women, but for some odd reason I cannot get physically close to a woman without feeling horribly uncomfortable. Even when I was engaged I had this problem. I could be intimate with her, but I never felt totally at ease in her arms.

Additionally, I am unusually aware and subconscious of a woman’s physical beauty. I have a tendency to back away a few inches when a woman gets too close to me. Are these spacial-boundary issues, as I was born three months premature and was constantly surrounded by female nurses in the premature ward (who would always have to be in close proximity to me due to my precarious premature health)?

Even before I was engaged, I had trouble being close to women.

My fiancee is paying child support for his son (whom he’s not allowed to see because he’s with me), which is taken out of his paycheck weekly. But his son’s custodial parent decided to go to the support kids website and start a case against him there. She says he’s not trying to support his son and that he’s trying to hurt him. He was recently laid off from work for a month and he just found another job, but she’s upset because she didn’t get any money that month and they haven’t started taking it out of his pay at the new job yet. He tries to call his son, and no one will answer the phone. He sends him emails, but he never gets a response. He’s worried that if they take more money out of his pay, then he won’t be able to support his daughter, too. And he wants to know if there is anything he can do to to see his son. He has a court order for support and visitation. But, she told him that as long as he’s with me, he can’t see his son. Is there any advice for this situation??
In addition, the custodial parent is his son’s grandmother. His son’s mom gave up custody because she was into drugs. She now has 2 more children. The only one she has is the one she’s pregnant with. But yet, this woman called me a w***e and a s**t. She has met me once and knows nothing about me. We were also told to keep all the emails that she sends to us because they can be used in court.