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Several yrs. ago I would have thought my situation here was gross.Now in mid 20s I’m wanting to catch up w/my darker side(witches,sexual fetishes,attractive older women,etc.)I’ve become much more open to things I would not seek in past.In HS I may had wanted to puke at thought of old woman fondling me, but not anymore.I’m thinking it’s something I’ll grow out of,or could get worse.Recently,here in Las Vegas NV I’ve been noticing (smoking hot)older woman.This one receptionist whom is close to being added on my”To Do List”has been particularly sweet towards me(it seems),asks Qs.such as,whats up this weekend,any big plans,which niteclub do you prefer,where’s my flowers,I’m so bored lets do lunch?She’s pushing 50,looks extremely younger,wedding band on thumb(why)& wears sexy clothes.I feel uneasy around her but quite attracted.If it’s an infatuation for me,how long b4 it goes away?If you’re my age is this gross?Tips & advice anyone?Go ahead,blast me I need the abuse!

Twice a month I go to the nursing home in the evening to have a Gospel singing with the residents. Last month, one of the employees kept smiling at me. I figured she was attracted to me, but I was pretty ceratin I saw a wedding band, and left well enough alone. This evening, well, actually now, yesterday evening (almost 2 a.m. of a new day here), when I went back to do the singing, she was working the same shift again. She was smiling at me again as usual. But she kept her left hand in her pocket. Once or twice she had to take her hand out to help a resident, and I definitely saw a wedding band on her hand each time she did so, but she seemed awful suspiciously like she was trying to keep that hand hidden from me, by trying to turn her body in a way where I couldn’t see the ring. Anyway, she walked out of the activities room for a moment. When she returned, she had her left hand in plain view, and always kept it that way, but now she had no ring on.
She continued smiling at me, and kept playing with her hair. I WILL NOT mess with a married woman. Number one, I love God and will not disobey His commands against adultery. Number two, I know what it is like to have a spouse cheat on you, and will not do that to another man. Number three, I love preaching and teaching the Bible, and have no desire to lose my job, and be kept from preaching permamently. I just want to know if she was trying to catch my attention and flirt with me.
Besides, and perhaps the biggest reason, I am still in love with A****, even though she apparently doesn’t love me, so I could not even bring myself to think about asking another woman out, even if that woman was SINGLE.